Saturday, December 31, 2016

The Traveling Queen is Back in the Big Apple


The journey home could not have been any slower and more stressful , I just wished I could snap my fingers and be in NYC instantly. But more or  less Efosa is back in the Big Apple (thank you God). Throughout my journey in Europe, my friends created a new name for me, “Traveling Queen” or “Dora the Explorer” because this whole year I have been around the world non-stop lol. It felt weird being home because I expected it to be colder than it was and I thought I would be greeted by snow, but I was mistaken. Parents were excited to see me once I arrived, surprisingly jet-leg did not hit me as much as I thought it would (I guess my late nights in Alicante paid off lol). As I reflect on my study abroad experience in Europe, one of the hardest things I had to do was say my various goodbyes/see you laters to the many people I met on this journey because the memories we all share will always be in my heart.  



My Denver Crew: Marysol, Yvonne, Jaime, Byron and Jack thank you all for the fun Alicante nights, accompanying me to Morocco and helping me celebrate my birthday away from home to make it special. Marysol, Yvonne, and Jaime: Calpe was a thrilling and eventful trip climbing the mountains, watching out for the seagulls, and making sure no one made the wrong step or turn.  Marysol and Yvonne: the two best of buds you guys helped me keep sane during my frustrating times when some of the Spanish professors’ explanations did not make any sense at all. I will miss our times in the cafe shop which served as our study session and study break spot, we have a lot of memories there. Overall, I wish you five the best of luck in your future endeavors and until next time.




My Norwegians: Annette, Ingrid, and Anniken you guys are SO AWESOME. Annette, I am going to miss you in the classroom and your facial expressions that illustrated exactly how I was felt when the teachers lost us during their explanations. Good luck with your horses and everything else in the future. Ingrid, the one always with a smile and knows how to have a great time and live life carefree. I will miss your no pasa nada spirit because you always found ways to see the bright side of situations and knew when it was time to let a situation go and move forward. Good luck with your remaining months in Spain learning Spanish, I wish you the best of luck on the DELE exam. Anniken !!!!!! we met at such a short period of time, but made sure that the time we shared was filled with laughter and great times. Even though I never knew what you and Ingrid were saying when you guys spoke in Norwegian, I will truly miss it because the way you two easily switched from English- Spanish- Norwegian without any hesitation was fascinating. Please be safe in the army and can’t wait to see you when you are done. I can’t wait to see you all when I come to Norway.


Spanish Study Abroad: The original squad I love you all sooo very much. Thank you all for making my trip to Europe a great one and helping me with my Spanish and encouraging me when I felt I was not making any progress. I was fortunate enough to share my study abroad journey with was not easy at all. These past four months we shared SO MANY MEMORIES I WILL FOREVER HOLD IN MY HEART. It is not goodbye but until next time. I love you guys so much and goodluck with your future endeavors throughout college and years after.




Lauren Perone: Peroniiiii!!! Peronester ! The girl who was going to go to Ithaca College , but ended up changing her mind last minute and enrolling into Susquehanna University. You are an amazing person with a kind heart. I want to say thank you thank you thank you so much for pushing my buttons when you did because you helped me exercise patience for others when I felt my New Yorker was coming out. From Ibiza to Morocco, Torrevieja, Granada, Valencia, Madrid, and Barcelona, you became my official travel buddy we share so many memories that will last both of us a lifetime. I am glad I was able to be there for you when you needed me and when you did not want to hear the truth, but I think that is what friends are for. Thank you for being a friend to me away from home.


Well that’s it folks, Efosa is signing out thank you to everyone who was with me throughout my study abroad journey. I love you all very much. Until next time.




Love,
Efosa   

Last Days in Spain


Returned safely from my six day trip and the reality that I will be home in the next forty-eight hours is surprisingly hard to conceive because I have been away for so long. Before, I left I went to the University of Alicante again and just observed my surroundings and soaked in everything I could as it was my last day on campus. I went to the Spanish Studies Abroad office and said my see you laters to Pepa and Marisa who are two phenomenal women who made my journey in Alicante wonderful and helped me become comfortable with conversing in Spanish.

I got home and wrapped up my packing (good thing I started in November lol) and had to wear a few layers of clothes to make room in my luggage lol. Before I left, I thought to myself how I want to see my host family’s children and grandchildren so I can say my goodbyes. I guess God heard my request because around 7pm I heard my host mom, Carla, Vera and their mother enter the house and thirty minutes later her husband and my host dad entered the house. I was so happy because I knew they were going to stay for dinner and as my last dinner in Alicante, I was grateful to spend it with them. While dinner was getting made, I was playing with Carla and Vera and it amazed me how in these last four months they grew on to me that it was actually very bittersweet that I would not be seeing them as often. Dinner time arrived and we had a great time talking about our day and then I ended the night by reading a letter to my host parents, then to Dori and her husband and I wrote two letter to Julia and Maria since I was not going to see them before I left. In the letter to my host parents, I expressed how I am forever grateful for what having patience with me as I improve my Spanish speaking skills and get acquainted with the Spaniard lifestyle. In addition, how their family is blessed to have them as role models and how I will miss my host dad’s jokes and my host mom’s Spaniard dishes. I could not get through reading the letter without crying no matter how many times, I tried to pinch myself to stop the water-works from coming, it was to no success. As for Dori and her husband’s letter, I thanked them for showing me the importance and blissful blessings of finding your soulmate and building a wonderful and strong family. Furthermore, how I aspire to have that in my future some day. Lastly, I told them all how I love them all so much and they will forever be in my hearts. I continued to keep crying that even Carla was asking her father why I was crying and he expressed she is just emotionally happy right now. They were all so touched by the letters. The night came to an end and we exchanged hugs and social media handles as a way to keep in contact.

Friday morning came and it was time to head to the airport. As I hugged my host parents, I cried a bit again (I will never understand this whole phenomenon of being happy to go home but when the day actually comes you are crying your eyes because a part of you wants to stay a little longer). Thank you God, Mom and Dad, Ithaca College, Europe, Spain, and Spanish Studies Abroad for a life changing experience.

The Adventures of Lauren and Efosa


My sociology final was three days away and I was half prepared, or so I thought. Therefore, I studied harder by reviewing my notes and the slide shows given by my professor. When test day arrived, my professor was so happy to see me and she reassured me that the exam was not going to be difficult as long as I paid attention in class and reviewed my notes (which I did). When I tell you all finals week was like no finals I have ever experienced throughout my college journey, trust me it was not. Basically, the exam was five questions which were very straightforward to the point that I had too much information for each question. At that moment, I realized I studied too hard for the exam and finished it within twenty to thirty minutes. I spent the remaining time reviewing my answers and then submitted it. Afterwards, I had a last time conversation with my professor who is a phenomenal  person. She is from Spain, is a business owner of orthopedics, a wife and mother. I really enjoyed having her as a teacher because she shared with me how studying abroad and living with a host family in the United States continues to have a life changing impact on her life since her college years. Before, we said our goodbyes she emphasized the importance of keeping the connections I made throughout my time in Europe (especially with my host family and professors) because it will go a long way in the future. Now that I was done with finals and had a week left before it was time for me to go back home. I needed plans to make my last week fun and not dreadful.
Fortunately, my friend Lauren, who is in the same study abroad program with me pitched an idea for us to use our last week in Europe to travel to Madrid and Barcelona as a way to see more parts of Spain, but more importantly curtailing our eagerness of returning home. So we planned a six day trip between both cities ensuring we do all the touristic sites while relaxing at the same time. As the days became closer to our new trip, I started to second guess the whole thing because a part of me just wanted to be back home. Once we our adventure started, I was very grateful I did not back out of our plan.
Let me fill you the Lauren and Efosa adventure time!


First stop: Madrid
We took a bullet train from Alicante to Madrid (it is called a bullet train because it only took us two hours to get there). The majority of the train ride was good, but the older Spanish women felt it was okay to talk very loudly throughout the train ride (oh did I forget to tell you, it was a six am train ride) so we were highly annoyed but got through it. When we got out of the train station there were these weird huge black babies heads (one was smiling and the other looked possessed) they were pretty creepy. Anywho, we get to our hostel called, “Way Hostel” if I am not mistaken. Let me tell you that hostel was AWESOME we booked a six person hostel (the location of it was perfect from everywhere) it had a dope sitting room, kitchen, comfortable beds, free breakfast and 3 EURO paella and 1 EURO sangria for dinner. Huge shoutout to Lauren for finding this place for us (she has knack with finding great places to live for reasonable prices). 


We visited the Cathedral de la Almudena which is a very interesting church (I might add) there were many resting sites which was creepy because they were on the floor and it was free for people to walk over (which I was uncomfortable with at all). Initially, I thought it was people from the eighteenth and nineteenth century who were buried there, but actually there were people from this century who were laid to rest there. One resting site that grew on me was of a young woman who died either 5 or 6 years ago , she was maybe in her forties when she passed away. Even though, she was a complete stranger to me , my heart went out to her and her family because whenever a person’s life is cut short it always puts me in a melancholy state. 

Enough of the sadness, the other place we visited was El Retiro Park which is a huge park great for taking long walks, pictures with live statutes, or the best part go on a forty-five minute boat where you row to the other side of the park. It was a great experience for me because it was my first time rowing a boat and thankfully Lauren was a girl scout and knew how to row. For starters, rowing is not an easy thing at first it is a full body workout especially for the arms (shoutout the the IC crew team who does this day in and day out). Occasionally, the boat experience was interrupted by people being careless with their rowing resulting in Lauren and I having to act fast so our boats did not collide with other people. There was a point in time it became so bad that we decided not to care anymore and brace ourselves when people collided with us and row to the other side of the lake with fewer boats. It was a relaxing and soothing experience for us nevertheless.


We met a couple of cool people in our hostel for example a half German and half Brazilian guy who became great friends with us after I found his wallet in our hostel. He had amazing hair like it was a gift from God, his hair. During our stay there, he talked about how he visited New York for a couple of years and was very familiar with the Manhattan area. We all ended up talking about the city life and our individual journeys throughout Europe. Madrid reminded me of home a bit because of the fast pace lifestyle and it was very preoccupied.


Second stop: BARCELONAAAAA (I would be lying if I said was more excited for Madrid than Barcelona)


Our trip to Barcelona was probably the best one saved for last (minus the Park Guell). Before, I start to talk about the places we visited, let me tell you about our hostel experience. We booked another six person room at Mediterranean Youth Hostel, also a great place for anyone who is looking for a place to stay in Barcelona for great prices. After we waited for the check-in time, we were told our room number was 102, but when we tried to use our keys for 102 it did not work so we thought let’s try 103 maybe it was mix up, nope the key did not work for that as well. So then we decided to go to 201 and guess what our keys worked and we settled into the empty beds we saw took a siesta. I would say forty-five minutes to maybe an hour later a couple entered and apparently, Lauren was in the guy’s bed, but the bed was not made so we assumed it was unoccupied (oh did i forget to mention there were no assigned beds it was a free for all). After five minutes a guy from the reception came and was able to solve the issue by convincing the guy to move to another bed. 

Just when we all thought everything was handled three hours later there was another bed issue so the same guy from reception figured out that we were put in the wrong room, we were supposed to be in room 102 not room 201. Lauren and I said yes we figured that but our keys did not work for 102 only 201. As a result we ended up having to move all of our stuff back to 102. The reception guy was so sweet he offered us free drinks from the hostel as a way to compensate for the inconvenience and informed us to talk to his boss in the morning about the incident. Long story short because this is getting too long, after talking to Lauren about our options of compensation we decided to see if we can have our dinners for free for two nights. The next morning came and I saw the boss and discussed about last night events and was able to convince him to let our dinners for the next two nights be free. Mind you we were only staying for two nights ! ( we were able to save money big time during Barcelona). Lauren and I realized that us together we are good luck because our trip went better than plan.  

Now, back to the places we visited while in Barcelona (many were disappointments in my eyes and one was WORTHWHILE). First place on our list was the Sagrada Familia which is a well known church in Barcelona, it was currently under construction so we were only able to see the outside and the one floor of the church where mass or important services were/could be held. The statutes were impressive and the color scheme of the church’s windows, but after five to ten minutes of being in the church, I was shocked to realized it was only the first floor that was open for people to see; I thought there was more to it. Afterwards, we discovered another part of the church where mass was being held (I guess until the construction was over) and as a past practicer of the Catholic religion, I felt it was extremely rude for while mass was going on tourists were allowed to take votes and tour the church while the priest was conducting the service. Personally, I thought that part should have been closed off until mass was over because it was highly inappropriate in my eyes (Lauren felt the same also, we could not stay any longer so we headed back to our hostel).

Following day, we visited Park Guell which is famously known for being in the Cheetah Girls 2 movie where they went to Barcelona and there is a song called “Strut” that has Park Guell in the scenery.  When I tell you the movie hyped up the excitement of Park Guell, I am not lying because when Lauren and I got there were in disbelief of how non-fascinating it was. Park Guell consist of the nice marble design (seen in the Cheetah Girls movie) with a great view, at the bottom a marble lizard, and houses people had to pay extra to see inside. Lauren and I were not amazed at all and were ready to head back home.

Prior to embarking on our six day trip, we found out that one of days in Barcelona will be a rainy day so we decided to make it an indoor activity and head to the Aquarium. Initially, I was thrilled for this because we were going to see the different feeding times of penguins, rays, eagle rays and morays. But to our disappointment, there was no organized schedule for these feeding times as listed on their website. Besides that we were able to find Nemo and Dory which was awesome because we were able to be big kids at heart again and enjoy seeing all the cool different fishes in their habitats.

The best part for both of us in this whole trip was THE ARABIC BATHS: AIRE BARCELONA. I thought it would be a great idea for our last day in Spain to end on a high relaxing note and what better way to do that then go to an arabic spa where you can get massages, rotate between various heated pools (room temperature, very hot and very cold), drink Moroccan tea, and listen to soothing relaxing music. When I tell you all that MASSAGE WAS BOMB AND MUCH NEEDED *sighs* (just thinking about it brings a smile to my face). Lauren and I left that place like new people ready to go to sleep and finally stress-relieved to pack and head back to the States.





I really enjoyed myself during those six days, it helped me appreciate Alicante’s tranquil lifestyle more.

Finals, Boredom, Italy


I officially have one month left until I head back to the United States and get fully acquainted with my life. I am excited to spend the holidays with family and friends, eat my mother's delicious food, and be in the comfort of my own bed. Even though I am eager to go home, I will miss the tranquil lifestyle of Spain especially the beautiful view of the Mediterranean Sea. As the semester is coming to a close “finals week” is slowly approaching and I have to study for my introduction to sociology final. Last day of classes for me were on the 1st and my final wasn't until the 14th, so I basically had a lot of free time on my hands. During my spare time, I watched various African movies on Youtube, discovered new shows on Netflix and most importantly caught up on sleep while boredom started to creep up again.
Luckily, I had an upcoming trip to Italy to visit one my cousin’s best friend (who’s work ethic I admire) who was studying abroad in Florence. The trip was very enlightening because it was interesting to see how similar Spanish and Italian were to each other. We caught up on old times and discussed our study abroad experiences in our respective countries. Throughout my stay in Italy, we visited the Duomo also known as the Florence Cathedral, the Uffizi Gallery, the Arno, the Ferragamo museum, and other historic and touristic sites.

Out of all the sites my favorite two were the Uffizi Gallery and the Ferragamo museum. The Uffizi Gallery is a three story mansion filled with the history of the Medici family, many artworks from notable artists such as Leonardo da Vinci and Piero della Francesca. Two art pieces I was amazed by were the, “La Toscana Di Piero Della Francesca” which was by Piero Della Francesca and “Annunciation” by Leonardo da Vinci. The painting created by Piero Della Francesca is a portrait of Duke and Duchess of Urbino and when looking at it at first sight I thought it was a symbol of their love. However, in actuality this piece of the royal family has a story to it. For example the Duchess of Urbino’s skin was very pale because during the time of the creation of the artwork, she died from acute pneumonia that was caused by childbirth. In addition, the Duke of Urbino was a well known warrior and during a battle he lost his right eye  and as it turns out he had a chunk of his nose removed. Due to his pridefulness in his image, the Duke made sure Piero Della Francesca painted his left side because he did not want people to think he was weak. Once I heard this, I was shocked because when viewing the painting I would have never expected this, but the Duke sure was a cunning guy.

As for the “Annunciation” painting by Leonardo da Vinci there is an angel Gabriel and Virgin Mary and it illustrates the night he informs Virgin Mary that she will conceive and give birth to baby Jesus. Here’s the catch to the image, when people first sighted it they did not believe it was one of Leonardo da Vinci’s art piece because of the “imbalance” of the people. However little did we know Leonardo da Vinci, knew what he was doing and we were viewing his artwork incorrectly. When observing the image from the left side, Virgin Mary’s arm seems small compared to her body. But when you look from the right side of the image, her arm looked proportion for her body (overall he was an artistic genius). 
  
The Ferragamo museum it consisted of fashion shoes, dresses, and models created by Salvatore Ferragamo and his descendants. In the museum there were also styles from other Italian designers. I was really impressed by the various foot models of famous people from Marilyn Monroe, Jennifer Lopez, to Michael Jordan (let me tell you he has some huge feet). Lastly, there was a handmade dress with a design that was hand painted by the designer, whose name I cannot recollect at the moment. Overall, Florence is a very beautiful city with an array of fashion styles that I felt described the different time periods very distinctively.

I really enjoyed my time in Italy and it was a great study break.